No relationship is perfect, sooner or later everyday life creeps in. With these tips you can bring back that freshly in love feeling.
Because one thing can be taken for granted: real love never rusts. With our tips, you both manage to refresh and re-experience the tingling feeling of happiness in your relationship , despite your habit, everyday life and routine.
How can I save my relationship?
If you are going through a deep crisis, you should clarify exactly where the problem lies in intensive discussions and through honest self-questioning. Couples therapy often helps more than many people think to save a relationship.
How to playfully liven up your relationship
Sometimes it’s not a big, unfixable crack that goes through a relationship, but just a slight crack. Often it is simply the lack of exchange and the lack of opportunities to speak out or even to talk to each other.
What can I do myself to save my relationship?
As long as the love is still there for both of you, i.e. the embers are still glowing, there are many ways in which you can rekindle a flame. You just have to try. These tips can help:
1. Relax!
Bad moods and bad vibes in love often have nothing to do with the relationship, but with stressful everyday life. It obstructs the view of beauty and covers everything with its tough grey. So it’s like: Ommm, come down, straighten out your life. Less stress is not only good for your health, but also for love.
2. Be good to each other again!
Very important, now and always: talk to each other, share feelings. Whispering love , i.e. affirming words, not only sound good. You say them to each other to reinforce your own values. This is how you strengthen your partnership and invigorate the relationship.
3. Do something different!
You used to meet to do special things together. If everything doesn’t feel so special anymore, it’s high time to do something great together again, because love is also an experiment.
4. Have spontaneous sex!
Yes, that sounds like a man’s tip: have a good fuck and then it’ll flop with love again. Of course that’s not true. But if you’re honest, it’s actually been a long time since the last time. Although it’s always a good thing when it comes down to it. But the two of you never really find each other.
5. Do something alone more often!
If you hold your own hand very close to your eyes, your vision becomes blurred and it becomes difficult to see details. Only when you hold your hand further away does the view become clearer. Likewise, every relationship needs distance. This ensures calm and clarity.
6. Create a common vision!
Common goals forge together. Do something big for next year – as a couple. It doesn’t matter whether you’re moving in together, planning a long holiday, going exotic far away or looking for a sporting challenge like crossing the Alps by bike. It can also be the garden design or a joint 10 km run.
Somehow the guy is annoying sometimes. Can this be? Yes, it’s quite normal when you’ve been together for a while. After all, nobody is perfect. our tips will help you get closer to each other and rekindle the fire of love.